The chair at the
head of the table sits empty now. It seems so odd not to see him sitting there
parting words of wisdom to generations of listeners. He was a wise man, a
simple man who loved his family, his church and his country in that order. Sunday
dinner was mandatory unless you were in intensive care and if you happened to
be running late you got the glare that stuck with you for a solid week.
Normally he sat quietly enjoying his meal listening to others talk about their
lives and when he disagreed with something said he would set his fork down,
cross his arms across his chest and wait for silence before commenting on
whatever it was. I think most at the table shook heads in agreement if only to
keep the peace and the food warm. There were many late nite conversations at
that family table sometimes it was just one of us and dad asking for his advice
on any and every topic that seemed at that moment a world crisis. He would
always make it better somehow with a soft voice and a gentle touch with his
weathered but strong hand. There were a few times at that table that weren't so
nice when a car got wrecked or a bad grade in school happened more than once.
Nothing was off limits with dad and he let us know that from a very early age.
Now his chair collects dust in the ruts it made being slid in and out of that
table. He may not be with us anymore but I still from time to time have a seat
across from his chair and tell him about my day, my life, and I swear I see his
arms folded across his chest just listening with great interest and a greater
love.
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